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For a very long time, fresh flowers have been seen as a thing of beauty, love, appreciation and a thoughtful gift to give to anyone, be it romance, apology, to let someone know you are thinking of them. Fresh flowers are also used for home decoration and for all kinds of events.

 

Recently, in Nigeria we see people with fresh flowers almost everywhere, especially on social media where we see people buying flowers, receiving flowers, sending flowers e.t.c, this was not how it was many years back because for some reasons, we Nigerians believed flowers were for the westerners, while some only see them in movies or say they prefer other gifts to flowers But those days are gone. 

 

Fresh flowers are now widely appreciated among Nigerians for the beauty, the thought towards it, the feeling it brings, the memories and also the proven benefits of  flowers around us.

 

We recently spoke to 5 women in Nigeria on why they love flowers and the responses were amazing which led us to ask men how they feel about receiving flowers and if they would like it and why. This is how they replied.

 

HENRY 29, ABUJA

Yes of course, I would like to be given flowers to because I also want to feel what makes all these girls shout aww when they get flowers.(laughing) 

Every time a girl gets flowers, she’s genuinely happy and it’s so beautiful to see. We men deserve such happiness too. 

 

Late last year, a close female friend of mine at work received flowers at the office, they were yellow roses with a box of cupcakes 

Before the flowers arrived , she was telling me how mad she was at her husband because of what he did the night before and he had been trying to apologize.

So when the flowers came, she went from being moody  to happy and immediately  called her husband to resolve the issues. And I was like “so flowers are this powerful.”

So, yes i would like to be given flowers to because i want to experience the power of flowers 

 

DENNIS 33, LAGOS

Definitely, I would like to be given flowers, why not

You see, Flowers are my thing and I know few people might see it as strange for a guy to like flowers, but I do. 

I love flowers because it warms the heart and that means the sender is thinking about you in a way that only flowers can express. 

 

I got to experience the joy of flowers from a very young age. Whenever my dad got flowers for my mum, I saw how happy it made her feel.

On my 20th birthday, my mum got me a bouquet of roses mixed with lilies and a million star and a bottle of wine. Roses and Lilies then became my favorite flowers, I remember how that made me feel.

From then on, the love of fresh flowers and plants started coming to me.  

 

Now, I will proudly say I am a plant dad (smiling)  and I love having  fresh liles in my parlor. 

The smell from the lilies helps me relax after the long busy day at work and we all know how Lagos traffic can be.

 

I think we need to start educating men in general to loosen up, they should allow themselves to be loved and be shown love in all ways possible and that things like flowers does not make one gay or less masculine.

Everyone including men should at least receive flowers even once in their life  because most people get their flowers when they are dead during their funeral, mostly men.

 

According to a songwriter Godw3in on his song NOW, he said that all the love and flowers you have to give me, give it to me now that I am alive to feel and see them and appreciate them. Not when i’m dead 

So please let me receive all my flowers now that i’m alive to smell and feel them 

 

PASCAL 3O, ABUJA

Yes we know flowers are beautiful and they are a thoughtful gift to give to someone but for me as a guy, I wouldn’t know what to do with the flowers. Because of this I will say no.

 

Flowers are expensive and I don’t like to waste something expensive or misuse it. Had it been I know what to do with flowers I wouldn’t have minded getting flowers as a gift. I just hate to waste things, especially expensive ones. 

 

I am only saying no because I wouldn’t know what to do with the flowers when I get them or how to care for them and things like that, but I will really appreciate the gesture.

 

LEONARD 35, ABUJA

With all of my heart, (laughing), 

Flowers are different from what we usually get and that will be something I will have in my memory till I die because that’s next level love right there.

I love to be spoiled with love too.(smiling).

 

We’ve been made to believe by society that flowers are for ladies only. I don’t think that should be so. 

For example, when a man and a woman die, people carry flowers to their graves, but when they are alive, just the lady is allowed to get flowers by the society. That is isnt right.

 

Why is it acceptable to give flowers to someone that is not alive to appreciate them, but it’s the reverse when the person is alive. It  doesn’t make any sense to me.

 

JASON 32, LAGOS

 

I do get flowers for all my girlfriends, my mum and sisters every occasion and I dare not miss sending them flowers if not i would be in a serious trouble

 

I see how that makes them feel, I love it, I love making them feel cherished and loved . They do deserve it actually, But what about me, 

 

I also want to experience the joy and happiness of receiving flowers too. I want to feel loved and pampered too

 

Being a man in lagos with all those toxic masculinity can be so stressful and we want to feel loved and cherished without asking 

 

So , I’d love to be given flowers too because life na 1 and I want to enjoy it to the fullest way possible

 

Now over to you guys, let us know in the comment section if you would love to be given flowers and why.

Waiting excitedly to see those comments.

 

Fresh flowers are known by all as gifts that help people express their feelings and unwavering love, and also make the recipients feel special, cherished, and happy, even just by looking at them.

Many years ago, in Nigeria and in most parts of Africa, we used to think of fresh flowers as a part of western culture that are only read about in books or seen in movies.

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and if you’re looking for the perfect way to spend a romantic evening with your significant other, to round off a day of Valentine flowers and gifts, a good movie can be just the thing. Whether you’re a fan of heartwarming romantic comedies or epic love stories, there’s a film out there for everyone.

To help you out, we’ve compiled a list of the ten best romantic movies to watch on Valentine’s Day. These films are sure to have you and your partner feeling the love, and are perfect for setting the mood for a cozy night in.

 

“The Notebook” 

This classic romantic drama tells the story of Noah and Allie, two young lovers whose relationship is tested by the challenges of war and class differences. With beautiful performances from Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams, “The Notebook” is sure to have you and your partner reaching for the tissues.

 

“Love, Actually” 

 This beloved romantic comedy follows the lives of eight different couples as they navigate the ups and downs of love and relationships during the holiday season. With an all-star cast including Hugh Grant, Liam Neeson, and Keira Knightley, “Love, Actually” is a feel-good film that’s perfect for a Valentine’s Day movie night.

 

“Crazy, Stupid, Love.” 

 This hilarious romantic comedy follows the story of Cal, a middle-aged man who finds himself suddenly single after his wife asks for a divorce. With the help of his young, suave mentor Jacob (played by Ryan Gosling), Cal sets out to win his wife back and learn how to navigate the world of dating.

 

“Moonstruck” 

 This romantic comedy follows the story of Loretta, a practical Italian-American woman who falls for her fiancé’s charismatic younger brother. With charming performances from Cher and Nicholas Cage, “Moonstruck” is a heartwarming film that’s sure to put you and your partner in the mood for love.

 

“Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind” 

 This unconventional love story follows the relationship of Joel and Clementine, two people who undergo a procedure to erase each other from their memories after a painful breakup. As the memories of their relationship are erased, Joel realizes how much he still loves Clementine and fights to keep her memories intact.

 

“La La Land” 

 This modern-day musical tells the love story of Mia and Sebastian, two aspiring artists trying to make it in Los Angeles. With stunning musical numbers and electrifying performances from Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling, “La La Land” is a must-see for any romantic movie fan.

 

“Casablanca” 

This classic love story set in WWII-era Morocco follows the relationship between Rick, a cynical American expatriate, and Ilsa, a beautiful and complicated woman who is torn between her love for Rick and her duty to her husband. With iconic performances from Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman, “Casablanca” is a timeless love story that never goes out of style.

 

“Annie Hall” 

This romantic comedy-drama follows the tumultuous relationship between neurotic comedian Alvy Singer and the ditzy but lovable Annie Hall. With sharp wit and a relatable portrayal of modern love, “Annie Hall” is a must-see for any romantic movie fan.

 

“When Harry Met Sally” 

This classic romantic comedy follows the relationship between Harry and Sally, two friends who take a road trip together and end up falling in love. With clever dialogue and a heartwarming love story, “When Harry Met Sally” is a Valentine’s Day classic.

 

PS I Love You 

The romantic movie with some awesome musical scores stars Gerard Butler and Hilary Swank as Gerry and Holly respectively and has a mix of sad, funny, happy, and nostalgic moments. A beautiful love story that will stay with you long after the credits roll.

 

Liked our list? What other romantic movies would you like to add? Let’s hear your thoughts in the comments section below.

 

Valentine’s Day is a holiday that is celebrated every year on February 14th. It is a day that is specifically dedicated to the celebration of love and affection between two or more people.

 While there are many different ways that people celebrate Valentine’s Day, one of the most popular traditions is the giving of flowers to the person that you love.

However, why do people send flowers to women on Valentine’s Day?  Well, it is a tradition that dates back centuries and has its roots in the ancient Roman holiday of Lupercalia. 

During this holiday, which was held in honour of the Roman god of fertility, men would draw the names of women from a jar and would then be paired with that woman for the duration of the holiday. As part of this tradition, men would often give their chosen women flowers as a symbol of their affection.

Over time, this tradition evolved and became more associated with Valentine’s Day. In the Middle Ages, it was common for people to exchange love letters and small gifts on Valentine’s Day, and flowers became a popular choice for these gifts. They were seen as a symbol of love and affection, and were often given to women as a sign of the giver’s feelings.

Today, the tradition of giving flowers on Valentine’s Day is still going strong. In fact, it is one of the busiest days of the year for florists, as people all over the world are buying flowers to give to their loved ones. And while the tradition of giving flowers to women on Valentine’s Day is still very much alive, it is no longer just a gesture that is reserved for men. Women can also give flowers to the men in their lives on Valentine’s Day, and many do.

There are many different reasons why people choose to give flowers on Valentine’s Day. For some, it is a way to express their love and affection for their partner in a romantic and thoughtful way. For others, it is simply a way to show appreciation and gratitude for the person that they love. Whatever the reason, there is no denying the fact that flowers are a beautiful and timeless way to celebrate love on Valentine’s Day.

But why are flowers such a popular choice for Valentine’s Day gifts? One reason is that they are simply beautiful. Whether they are a bouquet of red roses or a colorful arrangement of chrysanthemums, flowers have the ability to brighten up a room and bring joy to those who receive them. They also have a way of bringing people closer together, as they provide a way for people to connect and communicate through the language of flowers.

Another reason why flowers are a popular choice for Valentine’s Day gifts is that they are relatively easy to find and can be purchased in a variety of different forms. Whether you want to buy a bouquet of fresh flowers from a florist or order a potted plant online, there are many different options available to you. This makes it easy for people to find the perfect flowers for their loved ones, no matter what their preferences may be.

But perhaps the biggest reason why people send flowers to ladies on Valentine’s Day is that they are a timeless and traditional way to show love and affection. From the ancient Romans to modern-day romantics, people have been using flowers to express their feelings for centuries. And as long as there are people who are in love, there will always be a place for flowers on Valentine’s Day.

 

This recent Christmas we picked 5 female winners of the Secret Santa on our Instagram page, but there was a twist. The gifts were not to be sent to them, remember, ‘Secret Santa’, but to any male friend of their choosing in Lagos or Abuja, Nigeria.

The five men, going about their daily routines, each received an unexpected surprise: a bouquet of flowers, a bottle of Moet Champagne, and a box of chocolates.

We later spoke to the ladies and compiled the outcomes together with their reactions when we delivered them. Read On.

 

The first man, a young lawyer named Tunde, was ecstatic when he received the flowers. He had just finished a long and gruelling case at the courthouse and the bright, colourful petals were exactly what he needed to lift his spirits. “I can’t believe someone would go out of their way to do something so thoughtful for me,” Tunde said, smiling as he placed the bouquet of flowers on his desk.

 

The second man, a businessman named Hassan, was equally pleased when he received the fresh flowers. “I must admit, I was a bit sceptical at first,” he said. “But these are beautiful. It’s always nice to receive a thoughtful gift, especially when it’s unexpected.”

The third man, a university student named Chuka, was pleasantly surprised when he saw the bouquet of flowers, “I have no idea who could have sent these to me,” he said, as he grilled our delivery man repeatedly asking who it was from, examining the bouquet with a mix of curiosity and gratitude. “But I’m not going to look a gift horse in the mouth. I’ll just enjoy them and be grateful.”

 

The fourth man, a government worker named Bola, was a bit more reserved when he received the fresh flowers. “I’m not sure what to make of this,” he said, eyeing the bouquet warily. “I don’t have any romantic interests at the moment, so I’m not sure who could have sent these.” Despite his initial hesitation, Bola eventually came around and admitted that the flowers were a nice gesture.

 

The fifth man, a writer named Femi, was the most skeptical of all when he received the fresh flowers. “I’m flattered, but I can’t help but wonder if there’s some ulterior motive at play here,” he said, eyeing the bouquet with suspicion. “Who knows what kind of strings might be attached?” Despite his reservations, Femi eventually decided to accept the flowers and enjoy them for what they were: a kind and thoughtful gesture.

 

Each of the five men found themselves pondering the identity of the person who had sent them the flowers. Tunde wondered if it was a client thanking him for his hard work. Hassan speculated that it might be a business associate trying to curry favor. Chuka wondered if it was a secret admirer. Bola and Femi both considered the possibility that it was a prank, but eventually dismissed the thought.

We later reached out to the ladies, and it turned out three of the men correctly guessed it was from them and called them to say ‘Thank You’.

One of the other two men called us to ask who it was from after he had apparently thanked the wrong lady, oops! We couldn’t reveal her identity, but the lady later told him. 

As for the last man, he still doesn’t know who sent it, as the lady told us she has a huge crush on him but he doesn’t know and she wouldn’t want him to know that she sent him flowers and gifts.

That’s it. It was a whole lot of fun for us and we are already looking forward to doing another set of Secret Santa this Valentines’ Day.

 

Valentine’s Day is a time to show your loved one how much you care, and choosing the perfect gift to go with flowers can be a daunting task. 

There are so many options available, from fresh flowers which are popular for valentine to chocolate and cupcakes, and it can be tough to decide on the perfect present.

 Here are seven things to consider when choosing a Valentine’s gift for her.

 

Her Interests And passions

The first thing to consider when choosing a Valentine’s gift for her is her interests and passions. Does she have a favorite hobby or anything you could get that would make her happy? 

For example, if she loves smelling good or loves good scents, you can get her a perfume or a scented candle. You can also get her flowers in her favorite colors. 

By getting her something related to her interests and passions, you’ll show that you’ve put thought into the gift and that you know her well.

 

Her personal style

Another important factor to consider is her personal style. Is she more of a minimalist or a maximalist? Does she prefer bold, statement pieces or more subtle, understated ones? 

Knowing her style will help you choose a gift that she’ll love and that fits her aesthetic. 

For example, if she’s a minimalist, a simple bouquet of flowers would be a great choice. If she’s more of a maximalist, a boxed arrangement of flowers with balloons and cakes or a box of chocolate would be a perfect fit.

 

Your budget

It’s wise to always have a budget when you want to get any gift for anyone, but remember that you are sending a valentine gift to someone you love and you want to show her how much you really do love her.

It is said that there is no price tag for love, so you are free to go all out when buying a valentine’s day gift for her.

You want to make an impression on her with your gift, get her something that will wow her and make her feel special.

 

 

Her preferences

It’s always a good idea to consider your partner’s preferences when choosing a gift. Does she have a particular type of flower or chocolate that she loves? Or Is there a specific type of jewelry or accessory that she’s been wanting? .

By taking her preferences into account, you’ll be able to choose a gift that she’ll really appreciate and that she’ll be able to use or enjoy.

 

The level of intimacy in your relationship

The level of intimacy in your relationship should also be considered when choosing a Valentine’s gift.

If you’re in a new relationship, it’s probably best to steer clear of overly intimate gifts like lingerie or sex toys. These types of gifts are more appropriate for couples who have been together for a longer period of time and have a deeper level of intimacy. 

Instead, opt for something sweet and thoughtful, like a bouquet of flowers with chocolates.

 

Your relationship history

Your relationship history is another important factor to consider when choosing a Valentine’s gift. If you’ve been together for a long time, you may want to choose something a little more special or sentimental to show your appreciation. This could be something like a custom piece of jewelry or a thoughtful handwritten note.

 If you’re in a new relationship, a more casual gift like a box of chocolates or a bouquet of flowers with different colors  would be a great choice.

 

The message you want to send

Finally, think about the message you want to send with your Valentine’s gift. Are you looking to express your love and appreciation for your partner, or are you trying to spice things up and add some romance to your relationship? Your gift should reflect the message you are trying to portray.

Feel free to add more things to note when buying her a valentine’s day gift in the comment section.

 

 

Sending flowers to friends and loved ones is no doubt one of the best and most relevant gifts, especially when it comes as a surprise, as flowers convey different emotions and can lift the receiver’s spirit and boost their mood

Getting a gift that goes well with the flowers is an even better way to go as it further enhances the outcome. While some gift items work well for all occasions, some gifts are better suited to some occasions than others depending on the occasion, for instance, you wouldn’t send a teddy bear with condolence flowers and so on.

Here are some of the gift items to pair with your flower arrangements with some suitable occasions for each also highlighted where relevant.

 

CHOCOLATE

WINE AND CHAMPAGNE

TEDDY BEAR

CAKE OR CUPCAKES

PERFUME

FOOD TRAY

SPA ESSENTIAL AND GIFT SET

BALLOPNS

CANDLES

JEWELRY

 

 

CHOCOLATE

What are flowers without chocolates? Flowers and chocolates are said to be the king of romantic gifts, flowers and chocolates can also pass for almost any occasion without sending the wrong signals, you can gift a colleague chocolate and flowers to congratulate them, it also goes well for birthdays, anniversaries, romance, and many other occasions.

 

WINE AND CHAMPAGNE

wine and champagne always make a classy gift to send along with flowers and chocolates and also works well for various occasions whether romantic or platonic. Proposal flowers, apology flowers, birthday flowers anniversaries, etc are some of the various occasions that do well with wine and champagne.

A caveat is that alcoholic wine and champagne should not be sent to recipients who do not take alcohol. Of course, there are also non-alcoholic wines that can be included instead.

 

TEDDY BEAR

 Stuffed animals are one of the most adorable gifts because of their calming effect, I mean who doesn’t love teddies, they can be given as a romantic gesture, get well soon present, and so on. 

Just like chocolates, teddy bears serve as a present for different occasions and the teddy bear is a gift that brings comfort to the receiver 

 

CAKE OR CUPCAKES

 this particular gift is almost a given on every occasion, be it a birthday, anniversary, baby shower, bridal shower, or wedding. Cakes are like a source of happiness because of their blend of sweetness and deliciousness, 

Just like we have different arrangements of flowers, every now and then people come up with new recipes and designs of cakes too. 

Gifting a loved one cakes or cupcakes with a beautiful flower arrangement, wine, balloon, and chocolate for a birthday or any occasion is a big yes anyday

 

PERFUME

 Everyone deserves to get perfume as it is a fantastic gift idea, perfumes also leave a long-lasting impression just like flowers, that’s why it’s a perfect combination to send as a romantic present, for a date proposal, and other romantic occasions

 

 FOOD TRAY

Food baskets are often a good choice too on some occasions. Food baskets are a good add-on for flowers as sending a food tray and a beautiful flower bouquet, with a romantic message to a loved one for birthdays or as a romantic gesture is bound to put a smile on their face.

  

SPA ESSENTIALS AND GIFT SET

Everybody likes to get a taste of the ‘soft life’, scented soaps, candles, and luxurious body lotions with flowers, just as the beautiful sight of flowers brings smiles to our faces, the fragrance from spa essentials, bath sets, and gift sets is enough to melt the stress and anxiety your loved one is going through.

 

BALLOONS

When you want the presentation of the flowers and gifts to pop, balloons are always a great way to go. There are different types of balloons and can be used for various purposes. 

Balloons are not only restricted to birthdays or anniversaries as they are perfect for most festive occasions, and in recent times, we also have letter balloons to spell out the occasion. Balloons and a box of red roses for a proposal are a trendy way to go; she is definitely going to say yes.

  

 

CANDLES

A scented candle, a bouquet of flowers, and a bottle of champagne. I bet you can already imagine the mood here. 

A romantic candlelit dinner with a soothing ambiance. 

A romantic indoor bath with petals on the floor and candles set up around the bathroom. 

A romantic dimly lit room with petals on the bed and scented candles around the room.

 That is what makes including scented candles a great addition, especially for romantic gestures. 

Since time immemorial scented candles this has worked, and will always be a great soothing addition to fresh flowers.

 

JEWELRY

 A beautiful arrangement of flowers paired with beautiful jewelry is definitely a swoon-worthy gift combo. Be it diamond earrings or a colorful flower-inspired necklace, there are many ways to match a brilliant bouquet to thoughtful pieces of jewelry.

After all, as they say, Diamonds are a woman’s best friend.

 

 

 

Flower bouquets paired with any of the suggested gifts are a great accompaniment for a lot of people, and always bring the finishing touch to the gifts. What gift ideas did we miss out?

 Kindly share with us in the comment section.